Finding Morris - Finding Halle

FM43 - Is he playing or is he serious?

2010-09-28T23:02:00.003-04:00

FM43-Is he playing or is he serious?Recorded at the Metro Atlanta Christian singles event that we held at Grant Park in South East Atlanta.We focused on the question how does a woman know “Is he playing or is he serious?”A lot of fun and insight into how men behave when there are really feeling you.Stay in touch:NEWSLETTER SIGN-UPFM FACEBOOKFM TWITTERFM MYSPACE PAGEEmail us at Finding Morris

Your gifts not your list

2010-06-17T04:57:00.008-04:00

The only person that can control is YOU! The best list you can male is about you and whom you need to be for the husband God has for you.The right balance of looks spirituality and fun in a person can be too much to process and can take the joy out of the dating process. We all know on some level the kind of person we want, but where we often fall short is in our own preparation for our spouse.

Interactive panel discussion

2010-06-12T20:25:00.005-04:00

ATL SINGLES:::Well summer is officially here, and it’s time for Blue Lights in the Basement to kick it up a notch or two in celebration of SUMMER.The next event is Friday, June 25th from 6:30 p.m. to 9:00 p.m. at the KADTS Ballroom Dance Club (www.kadtsreallydance.com). KADTS Dance studio at 675 Metropolitan Pkwy., Atlanta, GA 30310 --> MAPThis event offers so much more than just talking

Are you the one?

2010-04-23T16:03:00.003-04:00

Is it true that most men know within 365 days if you are "the one" for them? For me It took 1 year of seeing her around, 1 year of becoming her friend....like a real friend.... 4 months of dating until I proclaimed her as the one and put a ring on it. I knew about 6 months into befriending her...I thought I knew even sooner but wasn't sure.If you have been dating a guy for more than 365 days.

Friday April 30th FindingMorris style!

2010-04-21T00:28:00.005-04:00

ATL Singles::: Join me Friday April 30th FindingMorris style! Look out Cascade, I'm bringing the real about dating. Check it out-->Hot topics on FindingMorris are:1. The Friend Zone: If a woman gets in it, is there a way out? Does that path lead to marriage?2. The back pocket woman: This woman is sleeping with a man that she calls her boyfriend. Her insecurityleads her to wonder if she has

Live event "Brothers Speak Out!"

2010-04-06T14:21:00.008-04:00

ATL Single people::: Why are 51% of women unmarried? Why wont he pop the question? Should the person you date have access to your cell phone password?Join me Wednesday night for Brothers speak out. This session will feature single men from ATLanta speaking about these and many more subjects.The SPICE singles ministry will have the single men of Total Grace Christian Center front and center to

Christian dating panel VIDEO

2010-02-14T07:04:00.009-05:00

Christian dating panel VIDEOYo let me tell you. Nikki Washington from GLOW magazine hosted this Christian Dating panel and my wife and I were so blessed to be there. We covered it all from STD's when dating, to sex, masturbation, and physical attributes. I'm sure you will enjoy this great discussion.This video is in 3 parts and the total run time is (2:30) total

FM41-Speed Dating

2010-02-14T05:17:00.001-05:00

Is Speed Dating a good idea for Christians?My wife and I drop in on a Speed Dating event hosted by Dr.Alduan Tarrt "The Peoples Doc". We spoke with the men and had a great time.Before I got married, I used to love speed dating....from my perspective it solved the basic problem of how to gain knowledge about every woman in the room without the need for having psychic powers or the Jedi mind trick.

The Perfect Man

2010-02-12T16:11:00.005-05:00

The Perfect ManI recently posted the following question on Facebook:“Single women::: The guy is perfect, everything you are looking for in every way, but one. He's not interested in serious dating. He doesn't want to court you. He is however, genuinely interested in you and wants to take you out. Would you go out with him? If so, how long would you date him?”I was surprised by the responses we

Walk into your husband's path

2010-02-12T11:40:00.011-05:00

Walk into your husband's pathIt’s interesting to me how some unmarried Christians seem to be committed to secular dating. You know what I’m talking about. Boy meets a nice girl, girl falls in love with boy, they become boyfriend and girlfriend until three years later boy confesses he’s not ready for marriage, girl sticks in there until boy becomes a man and marries her. It’s a dreadful cycle that

How do I change a booty call into a marriage?

2010-01-31T01:16:00.008-05:00

Single women::: How do you transfer a booty call based interaction into a lifelong joy-filled marriage? If a woman expects to have an actual man that is strong and loving without being lame or a punk, she must also agree that the terms of your interaction should be named by the man. In other words, it's a booty call if the man calls it a booty call. A woman can label it anything she wants to.

FM40-Finding your Barack

2009-09-16T08:45:00.004-04:00

Do sisters in the church compare the men they date to President Barack Obama? We tackle this issue with the help of gifted author and minister of the gospel, Dr. Ty Adams and the awesome ministry gift of Toy Banks of Girls Gone God dot com.We are excited about this historic 40th episode of FindingMorris.com. Please take the time to share this show with your people right now, so we can continue

FM38 - Premarital Sex

2009-07-31T12:37:00.005-04:00

FM38 - Premarital Sex (34:38)We may not know women, but men, we know! FindingMorris.com is all about the real talk about the real Christian walk of dating. Here is what the fellas speak to in this episode:• Pre-Marital Sex: If you do it, have you screwed up your chances of finding your Morris?• Why ratios of men to women don't matter.• What divorced women know about men that single women miss.•

Free samples

2009-05-25T23:47:00.008-04:00

Have you ever been to the food court at the mall? You see all of these fast-food places and restaurants all lined up selling every variety of food that most people would like. When you look closer there are always these people in uniform holding a little piece of chicken on a stick for you to sample. Have you ever watched men in this scenario? Men will eat the chicken on a stick, leave, and still

Butterflies

2009-05-20T00:30:00.001-04:00

Do those butterflies you feel with a person the key to making a relationship last forever? I used to think so until a mentor of mine shared how important it is for a man to find his wife, declare his love and then marry her. The conversation was perplexing to me at the time, mostly because I thought the butterflies or chemistry I felt was more important than how the man felt about me. As far as I

12 tips for Christian dating, Part Three

2009-05-19T21:14:00.000-04:00

From the book: GOD WILL MAKE A WAY by Dr.’s Henry Cloud & John TownsendRemember to keep your self accountable to Godly people when dating. This list blessed me when I was dating. When I didn't have my brothers, who gave me Godly council to keep my accountable at midnight, I would look it over. Email us and I'll send you the entire thing. Check it out:1. BEGIN WITH PURSUING GOD AND

Is it time to Detox?

2009-03-23T11:59:00.001-04:00

For as long as I can remember, I’ve been on some kind of diet. You name it, I’ve tried it: Atkins, South Beach, vegan and most recently the flat belly. No matter which one I’ve chosen over the years, they all required a period of time when you shocked your body into forgetting bad habits. Industry insiders call it detoxification or the process when toxic waste is removed.With the zeal of a school

Who makes more? Does it matter?

2009-03-22T23:27:00.000-04:00

I was talking to a single sister last week about what she was looking for in a husband and was somewhat surprised by how important a man's salary was to her. Christians talk a lot about sex and relationship drama, but we often feel a little "crunchy" when talking about our financial expectations. I guess it’s a bit too personal to share that you won’t marry someone who has credit problems, doesn’

FM37-The Bachelor fiasco 2

2009-03-21T22:04:00.003-04:00

Listen now online 24/7:FM37-The Bachelor fiasco 2 (25:39)Kanika and I talk about what are the benefits of dating like a Christian?Having trouble listening? -->Try hereThe FM newsletter will deal with money in dating, detoxing from toxic men and women, FindingMorris Newsletter sign up--> http://tinyurl.com/FM-sign-upFM TRIVIA: You may remember my wife (fiance’ at the time) from Finding Halle

12 tips for Christian dating, Part Two

2009-03-20T09:33:00.001-04:00

12 tips for Christian dating, Part One

2009-03-14T22:59:00.006-04:00

From the book: GOD WILL MAKE A WAY by Dr.’s Henry Cloud & John TownsendRemember to keep your self accountable to Godly people when dating. If your cousin Lisa is asking you out to "ESSO" (ATL club) and needs to drop by the weed spot on the way, you may not want to get her counsel about your dating situation. This list blessed me when I was dating. When I didn't have my brothers to keep my

The Bachelor Fiasco

2009-03-06T09:56:00.006-05:00

FM36-The Bachelor fiasco (27:34) Listen as Kanika and I talk about The Bachelor and the hot topic “If men know what they want”.This is part one of two. You may remember my wife (fiance’ at the time) from Finding Halle Episode one. Don't worry, the men will be back to address your dating questions in the days and weeks ahead.-->Listen hereIs your computer having trouble hearing the show-->Click

The sex in 90 days game

2009-03-01T23:52:00.008-05:00

Here is the 2nd most asked question at FindingMorris and rising fast: Will a man marry a woman after premarital sex? On a recent episode of Oprah, Steve Harvey compares having pre-marital sex with a man to the 90 day probationary period that is found in the corporate workplace. The theory is to make a man wait 90 days before having sex with him. I guess compared to God's plan of waiting until

Playing games with God

2009-03-01T23:34:00.002-05:00

Before I gave my singleness to God, it seemed that every three to six months I found myself interested in someone. I’d date him for three months, but most times it didn’t go any further. By my late twenties, the pattern became a great frustration to me. I knew being celibate would be a turn off to most men, but I never thought it would hinder me from getting married. Yet, like clockwork by month

Win a "What Boyfriend?" T-shirt

2009-03-01T01:34:00.001-05:00

We are giving away a "What Boyfriend?" T-Shirt to the person withthe best dating question for our panel of single Christian brothers.Just contact us at Finding Morris at Gmail.comor if your not too shy leave your name and city along with your question at404-567-5752

Am I Christian 1st, then Black 2nd?

2009-02-18T09:13:00.008-05:00

Apparently I'm late to the game, but I just read that 70% of black women are single! WTH!??I pray that our sisters get the memo, that we are Christians first, then we are black.We often tell ourselves and others that God is the center of our lives. Yet we often times surround ourselves with people that don't honor God or His Word. I'm sure it's mostly because they are family or we find a sense of

Are you truly single?

2009-02-15T23:45:00.010-05:00

All the Single Ladies (Reposted from Nikki's Blog) "All the single ladies! All the single ladies!All the single ladies! All the single ladies!All the single ladies! All the single ladies!All the single ladies! Now put your hands up!"Don’t front. You ain’t so

FM35-3rd Annual Valentines Day Show

2009-02-10T10:54:00.008-05:00

We have the answers to the questions that single women asked our panel of Christian single brothers. Listen now...FM35-3rd_Annual_Valentines_Day_(29:00)• Will you still marry me if we have premarital sex?• With all the beautiful saved women around, why are you still single? • Why do men look at other women when we are together?• Why do men hide their true feelings from women?Contact us if you

5 Things Christian Women Should Look for in a Mate

2009-02-08T23:15:00.003-05:00

5 Things Christian Women Should Look for in a Mate(Reposted from Kim Brook's Blog) Ladies, you may have had conversations with your girlfriends about what you're looking for in a mate. Well allow me to share a list of 5 things a Christian woman should consider looking for in a future spouse. Looks aren't everything (but it definitely helps! Lemme stop...) BTW – I'm not insinuating a woman go

Put a ring on it

2009-01-16T21:55:00.008-05:00

Until I met my husband, I never understood men. I didn't understand what they liked, what motivated them or why the relationship, no matter how hard I tried would last no longer than a year. I knew that I was a nice girl, attractive, church going, faithful and family oriented. What guy wouldn't want to marry a woman that was educated, kind and knew how to throw down in the kitchen? Yet, with

Exclusive dating-How much are you worth?

2009-01-06T02:40:00.010-05:00

Real talk. Quality time IS essential for dating Christians. This is where the search for compatibility is done. Most people would agree that people hold back some of who they are, making the search for compatibility tougher. This is one reason why society prescribes exclusive dating, or boyfriends & girlfriends as a system to learn, love, and discover the truth in the people we date. In theory,

Where is he taking you?

2008-12-16T23:09:00.001-05:00

(Updated Wed 12-17-2008)Where is he taking you exactly?How would you describe a woman that would get into a car with a man that she doesn't know? My caribbean grandmother would call such a woman a "damn foolish good-for-nuthin gal." Thank God for Jesus and grace, so I'll just call her unwise.Remember when our parents drilled into our heads, “don’t get into cars with strangers.” Somehow we’ve

Looking for a wife

2008-12-16T22:14:00.003-05:00

Looking for a wife...Hey all,Ya'll know by now i'm recently married. My single male friends would love to know that there are so many well intention women of God around. You know what my friends find rare and precious when looking for a wife? A woman that is available, that is available emotionally, spiritually, and after marriage sexually. To my friends emotional availability looks like a woman

Lustful thoughts

2008-12-09T10:23:00.006-05:00

Da video is HOT! I cant take anything away from it. My brothers please know this. When we say that we have a thought of some woman that is NOT our wife, and it's a sexual thought, that right there is what God calls sin. In the video he says at "this" point there has been no sin (committed)... WHAT??? I believe that he and God disagree on this point. Let's be real men of God, like for real, and

Why brothers avoid marriage?

2008-10-09T16:29:00.005-04:00

As Bill Cosby would say "c'mon people"! We know the root IS NOT role models, and statistics, and upbringing, and influences. Those things are the fruit and NOT the root. The majority of men DO NOT have a natural desire for marriage, but we do have a natural desire for Food,Sex, and Peace. That is stated more plainly as "feed me", "sex me", and "don't give me grief about it". Women can only safely

Sexual Purity

2008-08-19T16:48:00.003-04:00

By: David E. Longacre(Choosing the Road to Sexual Purity)Today's ScriptureRun from sexual sin! No other sin so clearly affects the body as this one does. For sexual immorality is a sin against your own body. 1 Corinthians 6:18 NLTThoughts for TodayLet’s all be real about a few things when it comes to sin. The fact that when it is in our power to change a situation that will likely cause us to sin

FM34 Good Brotha

2008-08-15T21:57:00.005-04:00

Yo! Welcome back to FM episode 34! I heard so many sistahs say there are no good men out there. At least not the kind that loves the Lord, never been married, knows how to treat a lady and all that. I’m hear to tell you that there are good men out there. In fact FM34 is featuring two of them. Wanna know what kind of woman you have to be to snag one of these good looking, Christian brothas? Stay

Should Christians have boyfriends and girlfriends?

2008-08-13T20:26:00.004-04:00

Should Christians have boyfriends and girlfriends?See the video now, then take the poll. (On the right column)http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=du-IFMmQiSs

When should commitment begin?

2008-05-02T21:21:00.001-04:00

When should commitment begin during the dating processAnnette writes:Q: What I mean is that I don't limit myself to "one man" unless we're both considering marriage. I think the American way of dating is highly impractical. The point of dating is to get to know someone and see if they could be a potential life partner. The act of "committing" to one person not only limits your choices, it makes

How often should a man call?

2008-01-24T14:43:00.001-05:00

How often should a man call?A very wise woman once told me that dating is mind over matter.Which is if you mind, then it matters. The truth is that if it matters to you that he calls you regularly then you should not feel ashamedor inadequate when asking to have your needs met. So how often should a man call a woman that he is dating, that can not be qualified by me or anyone else. Your standard

How sistahs can truly "Find" Morris, Part 3

2007-12-17T22:29:00.001-05:00

As we conclude this series, I just want to encourage you to guard your heart and keep your faith in God. Dating as a Christian is difficult, but staying true to your convictions is even harder. Instead of putting so much importance on his favorite food or what size shoe he wears (not that shoe size isn’t important…wink, wink) here are just some of the core values you should be talking about on

How sistahs can truly "Find" Morris, Part 2

2007-12-10T10:56:00.001-05:00

Let your brother tell you the truth. Only the men that come on to you, the blue men, will make great husbands. They will have the strength to honor you in a life-long marriage. Not necessarily "the gas station dude," but you get the drift. A word of advice, leave the men outside the blue section alone. I don't care how good he looks, or how much money he has. Even if you could get this manner of

Should friends date each other?

2007-12-06T22:51:00.000-05:00

Article reprinted from:Christian Singles Radio Blog Matchmaking And Articles Resource Hub For Single Christians Q:Thinking about dating a friend? A Christian single guy wrote us asking if it’s a good idea if best friends date one another. So what do you think? Should friends date each other? I know the cynical among us may agree with that line from When Harry Met Sally, “that a man and a woman

THE FINDING MORRIS SEASON ONE FINALE (FM31)

2007-12-01T09:59:00.000-05:00

On-Line Christian singles ministry radio.THE FINDING MORRIS SEASON ONE FINALE....how will it end?(TRT 39:56) FM31-The Best - the Funny & The Shocking EndEpisode description:It is appointed once for a season to end, then after the end, then rest! Praise God this season one has been great, and I have really grown up a lot serving you. This season one wrap up is a lot of fun. It is full of the best

How sistahs can truly "Find" Morris, Part 1

2007-11-30T21:27:00.002-05:00

(Reading time: 2:00 minutes)Here’s the deal and you know it’s true. Many "sistahs" are often wrapped up into this one guy. Maybe he’s the dude from college that she just loved so much, complete with soul-ties and all. Other times he’s this great guy, handsome successful, and committed in year one, two, a promise in year three and year four…ahem…all without a ring. Sound familiar?What if you could

Finding Halle is On-Line Christian singles ministry radio.

2007-11-30T18:08:00.001-05:00

FINDING HALLE.COMHey ya'll. There's one thing I know...men love beautiful women. And a woman who is beautiful inside and out is down right irresistible. So with all this beauty around, how does a Christian brotha find the ultimate dream girl designed just for him? How can God help him Find Halle?EPISODE ONE IS LIVE at FindingHalle.comThe sisters talk about:How to give up looks and embrase the