Friday, April 23, 2010

Are you the one?

Is it true that most men know within 365 days if you are "the one" for them?
For me It took 1 year of seeing her around, 1 year of becoming her friend....like a real friend.... 4 months of dating until I proclaimed her as the one and put a ring on it. I knew about 6 months into befriending her...I thought I knew even sooner but wasn't sure.

If you have been dating a guy for more than 365 days...Please, please ask him. "Am I the one?" "How will you know the one when you see her?".... The words "You are the one" should be connected to some kind of action. When he really means it, the action will be connected to a date. When a man is for sho nuff ready he will even plan it down to a time. Praise God!
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IF you have been dating a man for 365 days and you have been told that "your the one" and there are no actions, no dates, no times set then
"YOU ARE BEING TREATED LIKE A BACK POCKET CHICK."
You deserve better because men treat the back pocket chick as a plan B to whats really important in his life. School, some other chick, his money, etc.

Stay of you want to but hear me when I tell you. I did this to a woman for 8 years! You got a decade to wait on some dude that says that "your the one" but wont put a ring on it? That IS NOT wisdom. You have to realize that a man that calls you the one but wont marry you doesn't really mean it. What he is really communicating to you is that you are A WIFE and not you are MY WIFE. His actions or lack thereof are evidence of this. (ouch!) Sorry

James is the Host / Writer for FindingMorris.com

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Wednesday, April 21, 2010

Friday April 30th FindingMorris style!

ATL Singles:::

Join me Friday April 30th FindingMorris style! Look out Cascade, I'm bringing the real about dating. Check it out-->

Hot topics on FindingMorris are:
1. The Friend Zone: If a woman gets in it, is there a way out? Does that path lead to marriage?
2. The back pocket woman: This woman is sleeping with a man that she calls her boyfriend. Her insecurity
leads her to wonder if she has ruined everything by going to bed with him. He senses this and makes her a back pocket woman, the chick that you sleep with, not the chick that you marry.
3. Why are 51% of women unmarried? 70% of those black women?

Blue Lights in the Basement

Friday, March 30th Blue Lights in the Basement at Cascade - Registration and Orientation from 6:30pm to 7:30pm. Sessions from 7:00pm-8:00pm and 8:00pm-9:00pm

950 Dannon View
Suite 4201
Atlanta, GA 30331
Phone: 404 644 0710

The next Blue Lights in the Basement will no longer be in the basement of
Our Place Bakery. It’s moving to my office at Cascade and 285 where we will
have limited seating, so when you’re interested in the topics, don’t wait to
sign up. The format is also changing in order to give you more choice in
selecting specific topics and give the whole event a more intimate feel.
So, my plan is to have two facilitators beside myself who will lead
discussions in two separate offices for an hour on specific topics and give
you the choice of selecting 2 out of 3 topics, rotating to your second
choice after the first presentation.

Cost for this event is $15 to those who register by March 24th, after wards
the cost is $20. We may have some wine and cheese beforehand, and each
grouping will also have door prizes.

Tuesday, April 6, 2010

Live event "Brothers Speak Out!"

ATL Single people::: Why are 51% of women unmarried? Why wont he pop the question? Should the person you date have access to your cell phone password?

Join me Wednesday night for Brothers speak out. This session will feature single men from ATLanta speaking about these and many more subjects.

The SPICE singles ministry will have the single men of Total Grace Christian Center front and center to talk about real things that effect the walk of the unmarried folk in the church.

Come and join me as "Brothers Speak Out!"

Wednesday April 14th, 2010
7:30pm in the main sanctuary
Total Grace Christian
4000 Covington Hwy
Decatur, GA, 30032
404-289-2229

If you give it up he leaves because your unfaithful, if you hold out he leaves cause your a prude. Is this the norm in today's dating culture?